Once you find an escort that you like, make sure to book well in advance. Respect their boundaries – don’t haggle over price, play coy with payment or push sexual limits.
Also be aware that some escorts have fake listings and websites; be sure to check their links, their photos and do an online reverse image search to ensure they are authentic.
1. Look your best
If you want to do well as a sex model, you need to look your best. That means wearing clothes that show your curves but do not reveal too much of your body. Wearing clothes that are sexy, classy, and stylish will help you get the job.
It also helps to have a good lingerie collection. Try to have a few bras that are really sexy and can turn on men. Make sure you know your size so you can fit them properly.
Also, keep your perfume and deodorant on a high level. A bad odor can be a big turnoff for clients.
It is also a good idea to bring wine or a gift to your client. This will help you both relax and will be a great social lubricant. Also, it is a good way to show your appreciation for the time you spend with her. Just be sure to ask her in advance what she likes and avoid anything that is inappropriate. If you are unsure what to bring, you can always give her a gift certificate to a store she likes.
2. Be professional
As an escort, your reputation is your livelihood. You must always conduct yourself in a professional manner. You should always be polite and respectful to your clients, yet remain assertive and in control at all times. You should also take the time to maintain your physical health by eating well and getting regular exercise. Escorting can be emotionally draining and difficult from time-to-time, so it’s important to surround yourself with a supportive network of peers who can help you stay healthy and strong.
If you are new to escorting, it’s a good idea to have a set of 15-20 photos taken professionally by a photographer who knows what lighting and photography style to use to portray the image that you want. Some escorts include these photos on their website along with a bio, rates page, etiquette page, and a “how to book” page.
When it comes to booking sessions, never message an escort without being one-hundred percent sure that you’ll follow through with the appointment. Many escorts block out entire nights for their customers and if you cancel at the last minute you could be wasting a precious date night.
3. Be discreet
Discretion is essential for anyone working in the sex industry. “It really irks me when I get messages that don’t include relevant info, such as who they are, where and when they want to meet, and what sort of service they’re looking for,” says Shane. Arriving too early is also a problem, because the escort may be busy getting ready or with another client. If you’re going to arrive early, wait in your car or at a nearby cafe rather than loitering around the lobby of her apartment building. Handing the escort cash directly is not advised either, so leave it somewhere discreet when you arrive. You might even consider bringing a small gift to break the ice. It’s not expected, but it’s always appreciated.
4. Be confident
Whether you’re new to the industry or you have some experience under your belt it’s always good to remember that your safety and happiness as an escort are top priority. You must own your body and always feel confident that you can say no if something isn’t right for you. If you’re feeling nervous or anxious during an appointment it will show and can potentially ruin the whole experience for both parties.
When it’s time to leave you should take the opportunity to treat your escort like a real date. Walk them to the door, flirt with them and be polite when saying your goodnights. This will help build up a positive relationship and ensure your next appointment is as enjoyable as the first.
5. Be honest
It’s never good to lie to a sex model. Some escorts will even refuse to work for you again if you do. This includes being honest about your age, income and any prior sex or sexual experience.
Also, if you have any issues with your health, be upfront about them. It’s better to be honest from the beginning, rather than waiting until you’re in a position of having to fake orgasm to get through an hour-long session.
Most importantly, be on time! Arriving late will make your escort feel anxious and will start the session off on the wrong foot. Plus, it will cut into the amount of time she has available for you to have sex.
Also, be generous with tips! Escorts aren’t cheap. Do a little research before your appointment and know what she’s looking for. You can even buy her a gift if you’re feeling cheesy, but cash is always appreciated. Gift certificates for places like Victoria’s Secret, Bath and Body Works or Amazon are a safe bet. And don’t be afraid to flirt as you walk her out the door or to drop her off. Treating her like a date will make her feel loved and appreciated, which will ultimately make your next visit much better.